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Couple Compatibility & Love Language Assessment

A relationship health check that scores satisfaction, trust, intimacy, communication, and love languages, then uses an AI follow-up interview to dig into whichever dimension scored lowest. Built for dating apps, matchmakers, and relationship coaches who need more than a vague compatibility score.

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13 questions · ~7 min
Q01
Message

Welcome to this quick love test! We'll ask how satisfied you feel, what's working, and what could be better in your relationship — plus a short AI follow-up to get the full story. Honest answers help most. About 6-7 minutes.

Q02
Multiple ChoiceRequired

How would you describe your current relationship status?

  • Single
  • Dating casually
  • In an exclusive relationship
  • Engaged
  • Married
  • Other
Q03
Opinion ScaleRequired

Overall, how satisfied are you with your relationship right now?

Scale: 1 – 10
Min:Not at all satisfiedMax:Extremely satisfied
Q04
MatrixRequired

How would you rate each of the following in your relationship?

7 rows × 5 columns
  • Communication
  • Trust
  • Emotional intimacy
  • Physical intimacy
  • Shared values and goals
  • +2 more
Columns: Very poor · Poor · Fair · Good · Excellent
Q05
Point AllocationRequired

You have 100 points to distribute across the things that make you feel most loved. Put more points on what matters most to you.

  • Words of affirmation
  • Quality time
  • Acts of service
  • Gifts
  • Physical touch
Allocate 100 points
Q06
Slider MatrixRequired

How aligned do you feel with your partner on each of the following?

4 rows, one slider each
  • Financial habits and money management
  • Long-term life goals
  • How you spend free time
  • Approach to family and/or parenting
Slider 0–10Min:Completely misalignedMax:Completely aligned
Q07
Multiple ChoiceRequired

In the last 30 days, how often have you and your partner had a meaningful conversation about your relationship (not just day-to-day logistics)?

  • Not at all
  • Once
  • A few times
  • About once a week
  • Several times a week or more
Q08
Ranking

Rank these from most important (top) to least important (bottom) when it comes to what makes a relationship healthy for you.

  1. Trust
  2. Communication
  3. Emotional and physical intimacy
  4. Shared goals and values
  5. Independence and personal space
  6. Fun and shared experiences
Drag to rank
Q09
AI Interview

Identify which relationship dimension the respondent rated lowest in their earlier ratings (trust, communication, intimacy, shared goals, conflict resolution, or fun) and probe for a specific recent example that illustrates the gap. Ask what they've already tried to address it, what their partner's perspective on it probably is, and what a noticeably better version of that dimension would look like within the next month. If satisfaction and every dimension scored high, instead probe for the one small thing that could quietly erode the relationship over time if left unaddressed.

Q10
Dropdown

How long have you been with your current partner (or most recent partner if you're single)?

  • Less than 3 months
  • 3-12 months
  • 1-3 years
  • 3-5 years
  • 5+ years
  • Prefer not to say
Q11
Multiple Choice

What is your age range?

  • 18-24
  • 25-34
  • 35-44
  • 45-54
  • 55-64
  • 65+
  • Prefer not to say
Q12
Multiple Choice

How do you describe your gender identity?

  • Woman
  • Man
  • Non-binary
  • Prefer to self-describe
  • Prefer not to say
Q13
Message

Thank you for being so open about your relationship! Your answers feed into a compatibility report highlighting what's working and where a little extra support could help — no individual response is shared with your partner without your consent.

What’s included

  • AI follow-ups

    Adaptive probes on open-ended answers that pull out detail a static form would miss.

  • Attention checks

    Built-in safeguards against rushed answers and low-quality respondents.

  • AI-drafted copy

    Wording, ordering, and branching written by the AI — tuned to your research goal.

  • Auto report

    Themes, quotes, and a plain-English summary write themselves once responses come in.

How it compares

We reviewed the closest templates from other survey tools. Here’s what they do well — and where this template goes further.

Why this template

  • Scores five distinct relationship dimensions (satisfaction, trust, intimacy, communication, love languages) instead of collapsing everything into one generic compatibility number
  • Automatically identifies whichever dimension a respondent rated lowest and triggers an AI follow-up interview to dig into the 'why' behind that score
  • Uses a constant-sum allocation and slider matrix to capture nuanced trade-offs in what makes someone feel loved, not just single-choice quiz answers
  • Closes with an auto-generated report built from both the structured ratings and the open-ended AI interview responses, giving coaches and matchmakers something to actually act on

Jotform

What's Your Love Language Quiz Form Template

This is a lightweight quiz form focused on identifying a single love language, not a full relationship health assessment. It's built on Jotform's drag-and-drop form builder, so it's fielding-ready quickly but stays static once published. Good for a fun lead-gen quiz, less suited to coaches needing multi-dimensional diagnostics.

What it does well

  • Easy to customize and deploy quickly using Jotform's drag-and-drop builder
  • Benefits from Jotform's broad integration ecosystem (email, CRM, payment tools)
  • Simple, approachable format well-suited for casual or dating-app audiences

Where it falls short

  • Covers only love language identification, not satisfaction, trust, intimacy, or communication as separate scored dimensions
  • Static question flow with no adaptive follow-up based on individual answers
  • No automated per-response quality scoring or AI-generated qualitative report

QuestionPro

Love Test Survey Template

QuestionPro's love test template is a general-purpose survey aimed at gauging relationship compatibility, likely using standard rating and choice questions. As an established enterprise survey platform, it offers solid logic and reporting infrastructure, but the template itself appears to be a fixed questionnaire rather than one that adapts to each respondent's weakest area. It's a reasonable starting point for basic compatibility screening rather than in-depth relationship diagnostics.

What it does well

  • Backed by QuestionPro's mature survey platform with established analytics and dashboards
  • Supports a range of standard question types for structured compatibility scoring
  • Likely easy to brand and distribute given QuestionPro's broader survey tooling

Where it falls short

  • No adaptive AI interview that probes deeper into whichever dimension scores lowest for a given respondent
  • No voice AI interview option or guided screen-share tasks
  • No published transparent prompt methodology behind any AI-assisted scoring or follow-up

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