Relationship Satisfaction & Connection Check-In
Measures how satisfied partners are with communication, intimacy, trust, and shared responsibilities in their relationship, with an AI follow-up that digs into the specific moment or pattern behind their lowest-rated area rather than settling for a generic label.
Sample questions
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Overall, how satisfied are you with your relationship right now?
How satisfied are you with each of these areas of your relationship?
- Communication
- Trust
- Emotional intimacy
- Physical intimacy
- Division of chores/responsibilities
- +2 more
In the last 30 days, how often did you and your partner have a meaningful conversation (not just logistics) about your relationship or feelings?
- Not at all
- Once or twice
- Weekly
- Several times a week
- Almost daily
In the last 30 days, how did most disagreements between you and your partner typically end?
- Resolved with both feeling heard
- Resolved but one side gave in
- Left unresolved but dropped
- Escalated or repeated later
- We had no disagreements
How would you rate your partner's effort in making you feel valued and appreciated?
Rank these areas from most to least in need of improvement in your relationship right now.
- Communication
- Trust
- Emotional intimacy
- Physical intimacy
- Sharing responsibilities
- Handling conflict
- Quality time together
Thinking about the next year, how do you feel about the future of this relationship?
- Very optimistic
- Somewhat optimistic
- Uncertain
- Somewhat pessimistic
- Very pessimistic
Identify the respondent's lowest-rated area from the satisfaction battery and reconstruct a specific recent moment tied to it — what happened, how each partner responded, and what they wished had gone differently. If they rated everything highly, probe instead for one thing that could still quietly become a problem if unaddressed, anchoring on a concrete recent example rather than a general feeling.
Is there anything about your relationship you haven't had a chance to say here that feels important to add?
How long have you and your partner been together?
- Less than 6 months
- 6 months to 2 years
- 2 to 5 years
- 5 to 10 years
- More than 10 years
- Prefer not to say
What is your relationship status?
- Dating
- Living together
- Engaged
- Married
- Other
- Prefer not to say
Thank you for reflecting so openly. Your responses will be combined with others (anonymously, if part of a group study) to highlight patterns in relationship strengths and areas worth extra attention.
What’s included
AI follow-ups
Adaptive probes on open-ended answers that pull out detail a static form would miss.
Attention checks
Built-in safeguards against rushed answers and low-quality respondents.
AI-drafted copy
Wording, ordering, and branching written by the AI — tuned to your research goal.
Auto report
Themes, quotes, and a plain-English summary write themselves once responses come in.
How it compares
We reviewed the closest templates from other survey tools. Here’s what they do well — and where this template goes further.
Why this template
- Goes beyond a satisfaction score by using an AI follow-up interview that targets the respondent's specific lowest-rated area and asks about the actual moment or pattern behind it, rather than stopping at a generic label
- Covers the full relationship picture in one flow: a satisfaction matrix across communication, intimacy, trust, and shared responsibilities, plus conversation frequency, disagreement style, partner effort, and a forward-looking outlook question
- Includes a ranking question so respondents prioritize which areas most need improvement, giving structure the AI follow-up can act on
- Ends with an open-ended long-text prompt so respondents can add anything the structured questions didn't capture, alongside a transparent closing message about how responses will be used
Jotform
Relationship Satisfaction Survey Form TemplateA ready-to-use, static form template covering relationship satisfaction that can be customized with Jotform's form builder and integrated with its broader ecosystem (payments, notifications, etc.). It's a fixed question set rather than an adaptive interview, so every respondent sees the same questions regardless of their answers.
What it does well
- Fielding-ready template usable immediately without survey design work
- Benefits from Jotform's mature drag-and-drop form builder and integrations
- Easy to embed or share via link, common for personal or coaching use cases
Where it falls short
- Static question set with no adaptive follow-up into a respondent's lowest-rated area
- No automated per-response quality scoring or AI-generated analysis reports
- No voice AI interview option or guided task/screen-share capability
SurveySparrow
Relationship Satisfaction Survey Template OnlineA conversational-style survey template that presents relationship satisfaction questions one at a time, which reads more naturally than a traditional grid form. It's still a predefined script, though, so it can't probe deeper based on what a specific respondent says about their lowest-rated area.
What it does well
- Conversational one-question-at-a-time UI that feels less clinical than a standard form
- Fielding-ready template available immediately in SurveySparrow's library
- Supports basic branching logic within its no-code builder
Where it falls short
- No true adaptive AI interviewer digging into the specific moment or pattern behind a low score
- No transparent, publishable prompt methodology or automated quality scoring per response
- No voice AI interview mode or guided screen-share task option
Ready to launch?
Open this template in the editor. Every part is yours to change before the first respondent sees it.