What Are We? Relationship Check-In
Skip the 2 a.m. talk. You both answer the same few questions about where things stand, and once each of you submits you see the other's answers side by side.
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We both fill this in. Once you submit, you'll see what each of us said.
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Sample questions
What people answer. Every question is editable.
Your first name
How would you describe us right now?
- 💞 Dating, just us
- 🌱 Seeing where it goes
- 😎 Keeping it casual
- 👯 Friends
- 🤷 No idea, that's why we're here
Where would you like this to go?
- ❤️ Something serious
- 🐢 Slow down a little
- 🔁 Keep it as it is
- 🛑 Wind it down
How often would you like to hang out?
- Every few days
- Once a week
- Every couple of weeks
- Whenever it works
Anything you've been meaning to say?
What’s included
Results after they answer
Once someone answers, they see how many people picked each option so far.
No account for guests
Send one link by text, email or group chat. People answer in their phone’s browser, with no app to download and no account to create.
Every answer in one table
Every response lands in one table you can export to Excel or CSV.
Free, unlimited responses
The Free plan takes as many responses as you get, with no credit card.
Frequently asked questions
What questions are in the “What Are We? Relationship Check-In” template?
The template includes 6 ready-to-use questions, starting with: “We both fill this in. Once you submit, you'll see what each of us said.” · “Your first name” · “How would you describe us right now?”. The full set is previewed above, and every question is editable.
Do guests need an account?
No. Guests open the link in any phone or computer browser and answer, with no app and no account.
Can I change the questions?
Yes. Every question and answer option is editable.
Is it free?
Yes. The Free plan takes unlimited responses and needs no credit card.
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